Give your girl a mindgasm!
Every time, girls always say that they don’t think of sexual relations when they first meet a guy! There are some girls whom are turned on by many things other than the physical.
Of course girls initially attracted to guys looks, but what else is there? There’s a whole package to fill and girls need to see what’s beneath the surface and what you guys have to offer. Guys, from your sense of humor, to your chivalry, you’ll be surprised to find out what we gals find irresistible.
Keep chivalry alive
Chivalry ain’t dead, y’all! There are men who still hold car doors open, pull out chairs, and put jackets over water puddles for their lady to cross. Okay, that last one may be a little far-fetched, but you get what I’m saying.
Although there are some women who are all about gender equality, there are many of us who still love a good ol’ old-fashioned courting situation.
Chivalry is sexy and a big part of the entire package. It also lets us know that you care about our well-being. So, the next time you and your honey go out, make sure she gets home safely. And when you’re shopping, hold her bags for her. It’s doesn’t make you look like a wuss, it shows that you’re a real man. And real men don’t care about looking crazy for their girl.
Have balls… and aspirations
I don’t know about the next girl, but I can’t stand a man who doesn’t have a backbone. I have a strong mind and mouth. If you can’t handle this, how can you handle going head to head with a man. Who’s going to protect me in my time of need if I need protection?
And there’s NOTHING more unattractive than a man who isn’t in control — in control of his life, his destiny, his own opinions, or the relationship he’s in. We love ambitious guys. No one wants a slacker. Make moves to be who you want to be out of life so that you and your love can build a foundation together.
Act like a grown up
Because that’s what we are — grown ups. We’re not in college anymore. Now is the time to buckle down and face life in a mature way.
Loyalty is the root of all great relationships. Once you lose loyalty, you lose trust, and so on and so forth. If you love her, then she’s worth all of you.
We love men who are loyal and dedicated; so no lying or cheating! When you’re out with her, don’t let your eyes wander. Show her that you’re totally into her and she’s all you need.
Spontaneity is key
Women love spontaneity. It keeps the relationship unpredictable and fun. Don’t ask us what we want to eat for dinner or where do we want to go on date night. Surprise us!!
No worries, we’ll return the favor.
Make time with your friends and outside fun
Clinginess is not next to Godliness. While we love spending time, too much time results into you becoming clingy. Don’t be the guy who puts off plans with his friends to hang with his girl. Or the guy who gets mad when his girl wants to have a GNO.
Go out! Have fun. Let her miss you. It’s important to have a life outside of the relationship. It keeps things fresh and interesting.
‘Honesty is the best policy’ is more than a line we heard when we were younger; It’s the truth. Contrary to all of you guys’ beliefs, we love honesty. It’s sexy.
Be open. Communicate your true feelings and confide in her, showing her you’re letting her in. We don’t like it when you’re closed off and shut out. Show us that emotional side. That’ll win us over.
Have a fun side, and be direct
Us girls love a guy with a great personality and a good sense of humor. We also like when guys who can make their own decisions.
When we give you choices on something, confidently choose what you want. Don’t be so indifferent that we give up and make the decision. Take some initiative.
Show us you’re smart and successful
Some may call it stunting, but we get impressed by guys who can show us their smarts.
A guy that has achieved those goals we talked about earlier is super sexy. Success is a good indication that you can achieve what you put your mind to and that you’re about your business. It’s a big part of the overall package.
Just. be. yourself.
Women often tell each other to just be themselves when in a relationship. The same goes for you guys. Don’t pretend to be someone you’re not and be confident in that person. We respect confidence. Be upfront from the beginning. Lay everything on the table, flaws and all. Show her the real you. You’ll be surprised, but that will make her love you more.